Today I had a very interesting discussion about the fact that men are from Mars whilst women are from Venus. This conversation put me on thoughts all day long when finally did I recall some judgement in it. I will not discuss about how different the human male and human female are, but how about adding more spice to it and talk about what makes them itch.
When two different personalities join their presence together in girlfriend and boyfriend, they are not only committing to themselves, but also to an entire time of timing. Why am I writing in riddles? Because time is the answer above it. It is all about timing. When you get together, what point of maturity have you reached, are you carrying your past in your luggage you just moved in? It's even about timing when you start arguing. X is in the room, watching God knows what while Y is in the kitchen preparing dinner. Suddenly, dinner is ready, but the table is not set, napkins on floor, cat on the couch; the living room in a whole looks disgusting. Then what is the first most common thing to do? Argue. Not communicating, but shout and make yourself heard just like you are the lion in this Zoo and nobody can stop you. Maybe bite if you please, and then leave. Take a break, I say. Roll back, reverse the whole record and visualize: about to have dinner, so ask politely your partner to help you. He will. Dinner is done. Meal is eaten. End of story.
Did you understand? Stop making things so complicated by overreacting and start acting maturely. You are better than this. Better than living in a Zoo with a zebra, a kangaroo, some birds, tiger or lion. Keep it simple.
'Honey, could you pass me the salt?'
And here we are, back to basics, in this world full of sh**, no literally it is exactly like this *excuse my language*, just because praying would not help you and having faith in yourself will do more than just thinking whether the room is black or white.
People tend to be more and more stupid by the passing of the days. Then I ask myself what do I do wrong when I start arguing and regret it forwards. After all we are humans,or at least some of us are, but that doesn't mean we should back off and continue our lives like this - in anger. I definitely insist in changing the way of proceeding and acting. Again, act smart and smile, offer and ask for help, communicate ! Communication is the best tool one must use in order to not let the anger say its name!
Moreover, when a woman/man ends up a delightful relationship, they always get into a new one with the same amount or even bigger than before, of past luggage in their hands. Don't let past relationship ruin your future happiness! Your past is needed to be let in the past and focus on your present and future.
Be more happy, world! Smile, laugh, be around people that comfort you and make you happy! ;-)
Lots of love,
R.
When two different personalities join their presence together in girlfriend and boyfriend, they are not only committing to themselves, but also to an entire time of timing. Why am I writing in riddles? Because time is the answer above it. It is all about timing. When you get together, what point of maturity have you reached, are you carrying your past in your luggage you just moved in? It's even about timing when you start arguing. X is in the room, watching God knows what while Y is in the kitchen preparing dinner. Suddenly, dinner is ready, but the table is not set, napkins on floor, cat on the couch; the living room in a whole looks disgusting. Then what is the first most common thing to do? Argue. Not communicating, but shout and make yourself heard just like you are the lion in this Zoo and nobody can stop you. Maybe bite if you please, and then leave. Take a break, I say. Roll back, reverse the whole record and visualize: about to have dinner, so ask politely your partner to help you. He will. Dinner is done. Meal is eaten. End of story.
Did you understand? Stop making things so complicated by overreacting and start acting maturely. You are better than this. Better than living in a Zoo with a zebra, a kangaroo, some birds, tiger or lion. Keep it simple.
'Honey, could you pass me the salt?'
And here we are, back to basics, in this world full of sh**, no literally it is exactly like this *excuse my language*, just because praying would not help you and having faith in yourself will do more than just thinking whether the room is black or white.
People tend to be more and more stupid by the passing of the days. Then I ask myself what do I do wrong when I start arguing and regret it forwards. After all we are humans,or at least some of us are, but that doesn't mean we should back off and continue our lives like this - in anger. I definitely insist in changing the way of proceeding and acting. Again, act smart and smile, offer and ask for help, communicate ! Communication is the best tool one must use in order to not let the anger say its name!
Moreover, when a woman/man ends up a delightful relationship, they always get into a new one with the same amount or even bigger than before, of past luggage in their hands. Don't let past relationship ruin your future happiness! Your past is needed to be let in the past and focus on your present and future.
Be more happy, world! Smile, laugh, be around people that comfort you and make you happy! ;-)
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R.