Some guys would be so eager to have her and he doesn't even know it nor he believes it!
Some say it takes time to develop a relationship but most of the time, time is the benefactor who breaks it. You can wish for so much but if your partner wishes something else than you please, then it is all for nothing - everything you wish may fall in vain. It feels as if you were walking on empty ground streets and there is nothing in the world that could make you change this feeling. But then again, guess what awaits you at the other end of the tunnel? Is it more pain? Well, you know how they say.. 'no pain, no gain'!
Us, human beings may ask plenty of questions and find various directions towards the light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes, I find myself in awkward moments where I stand alone in my bed looking at the glimpse of light that falls beneath the clouds in the sky. I tend to comprise the feeling and relate to the fact that a relationship of any kind resembles to a daily job. You need to obtain great pleasure out of it in order to make yourself content every single day of your life. There may be many flashbacks in our minds where we deeply hoped to find a solution to each and every little matter.
Every relationship's beginning is out of the ordinarily kind. Imagine yourselves, late-struck lovers or aged ones how is it or was in the beginning?
You meet and a fluttery sensation strikes you right in the stomach and creates vibrations to the brain. It gets you intertwined with the Universe itself. It is scientifically proven that when one falls in love, the brain is similar to one's person which is on cocaine. Awful enough as it sounds, there are three subject matters that trigger your personality once a human being is in love and these are outnumbered - motivation. craving and desire. You, as a righteous person are no longer bothered by itsy bits and pieces but on the contrary, you feel as if your whole body is transcending into the clouds. This great motor of the mind makes you create various pleasures that transform you into an understanding and revealing personality. The pleasures create moments in our vision as what we wish to obtain and most probably the wishful bucket list vision will transform into reality.
Amazing as it is, this is not as durant as it hopes. When you lose that interceptive twine, people say you come back with your feet on the ground which is slightly revealed by the daily routine people get into. They are faster bothered by small things and see the defaults in their loved ones. This brings me back to the future.
When we realize how we did not move our foot to the brake and make a U turn, we then wish to find various directions and paths to follow. Most likely, if you are a strong personality, you may wish to change something in your current relationship and as rumour has it, 'fight for it'. Whereas if the defaults reached the above limits, it is most likely you shall end the relationship as soon as possible. I, myself have been experiencing both of the situations and tested out my principles and motives. As you mature, your reduced wishes and hopes may become higher expectations. You even have higher expectations towards life, itself.
Regardless the dreadful matters, when we've done bothering ourselves to change another human being's personality, then we can finally see with our eyes wide open that time is priceless and if it is not meant to be, it will not be! If you tried for years to fight for a person to be the way you want him or her to be and with no further success nor comments, move on. You've wasted your precious time that you will probably regret for the rest of your life. There should not be any regrets on this planet. If only human beings would turn their pages and correct their mistakes earlier; only then we develop and evolve!
Further anatomic questions and defaults should not even exist! Every person has their rightful match and they should first hand, dig deep into themselves. Once you entirely know yourself, you can find your passion much easily and then you can become happier within moments.
What is the meaning of knowing yourself?
To know your thoughts and feelings and accept the intuition any of us has. It's just that we base ourselves too much on the world's feelings and reviews. If we start feeling something about a person,, in many cases you will start approaching another close friend and ask him for his opinion. What? is that person more acknowledged in the area than you? Trust your first intuition and you will find for yourself what's best for you! Anyone can offer a piece of advice in times of crisis but nobody will know your inner-feelings and emotions. They cannot read your minds nor they will bother since they are too focused on their own self-development and integration.
And then we go back to the first written text in the post - the guy loves the girl so much that he is blinded by her aura and cannot see she is unhappy.
This is false judgement. He does not love the girl. He loves himself and only himself. It is nerve-racking to change a personality nor it is necessary. This is the enlarged and gross mistake we make in terms of relationships. The guy will do whatever in his powers to follow his own path and judgements because he is following his intuition.
And that, my friend, is the conclusion to this rather peculiar post.
Accept yourself, love yourself and improve your understanding of intuition in order to evolve on the scale of relativity where everything is shades darker than the outlook upon life.
Love,
R.C.
Some say it takes time to develop a relationship but most of the time, time is the benefactor who breaks it. You can wish for so much but if your partner wishes something else than you please, then it is all for nothing - everything you wish may fall in vain. It feels as if you were walking on empty ground streets and there is nothing in the world that could make you change this feeling. But then again, guess what awaits you at the other end of the tunnel? Is it more pain? Well, you know how they say.. 'no pain, no gain'!
Us, human beings may ask plenty of questions and find various directions towards the light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes, I find myself in awkward moments where I stand alone in my bed looking at the glimpse of light that falls beneath the clouds in the sky. I tend to comprise the feeling and relate to the fact that a relationship of any kind resembles to a daily job. You need to obtain great pleasure out of it in order to make yourself content every single day of your life. There may be many flashbacks in our minds where we deeply hoped to find a solution to each and every little matter.
Every relationship's beginning is out of the ordinarily kind. Imagine yourselves, late-struck lovers or aged ones how is it or was in the beginning?
You meet and a fluttery sensation strikes you right in the stomach and creates vibrations to the brain. It gets you intertwined with the Universe itself. It is scientifically proven that when one falls in love, the brain is similar to one's person which is on cocaine. Awful enough as it sounds, there are three subject matters that trigger your personality once a human being is in love and these are outnumbered - motivation. craving and desire. You, as a righteous person are no longer bothered by itsy bits and pieces but on the contrary, you feel as if your whole body is transcending into the clouds. This great motor of the mind makes you create various pleasures that transform you into an understanding and revealing personality. The pleasures create moments in our vision as what we wish to obtain and most probably the wishful bucket list vision will transform into reality.
Amazing as it is, this is not as durant as it hopes. When you lose that interceptive twine, people say you come back with your feet on the ground which is slightly revealed by the daily routine people get into. They are faster bothered by small things and see the defaults in their loved ones. This brings me back to the future.
When we realize how we did not move our foot to the brake and make a U turn, we then wish to find various directions and paths to follow. Most likely, if you are a strong personality, you may wish to change something in your current relationship and as rumour has it, 'fight for it'. Whereas if the defaults reached the above limits, it is most likely you shall end the relationship as soon as possible. I, myself have been experiencing both of the situations and tested out my principles and motives. As you mature, your reduced wishes and hopes may become higher expectations. You even have higher expectations towards life, itself.
Regardless the dreadful matters, when we've done bothering ourselves to change another human being's personality, then we can finally see with our eyes wide open that time is priceless and if it is not meant to be, it will not be! If you tried for years to fight for a person to be the way you want him or her to be and with no further success nor comments, move on. You've wasted your precious time that you will probably regret for the rest of your life. There should not be any regrets on this planet. If only human beings would turn their pages and correct their mistakes earlier; only then we develop and evolve!
Further anatomic questions and defaults should not even exist! Every person has their rightful match and they should first hand, dig deep into themselves. Once you entirely know yourself, you can find your passion much easily and then you can become happier within moments.
What is the meaning of knowing yourself?
To know your thoughts and feelings and accept the intuition any of us has. It's just that we base ourselves too much on the world's feelings and reviews. If we start feeling something about a person,, in many cases you will start approaching another close friend and ask him for his opinion. What? is that person more acknowledged in the area than you? Trust your first intuition and you will find for yourself what's best for you! Anyone can offer a piece of advice in times of crisis but nobody will know your inner-feelings and emotions. They cannot read your minds nor they will bother since they are too focused on their own self-development and integration.
And then we go back to the first written text in the post - the guy loves the girl so much that he is blinded by her aura and cannot see she is unhappy.
This is false judgement. He does not love the girl. He loves himself and only himself. It is nerve-racking to change a personality nor it is necessary. This is the enlarged and gross mistake we make in terms of relationships. The guy will do whatever in his powers to follow his own path and judgements because he is following his intuition.
And that, my friend, is the conclusion to this rather peculiar post.
Accept yourself, love yourself and improve your understanding of intuition in order to evolve on the scale of relativity where everything is shades darker than the outlook upon life.
Love,
R.C.
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