A woman's worth

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I've been struggling to understand for a very long time what is inside a man's head. Is it only sex for breakfast, lunch and dinner and sleep in the midnight? Of course, let's not talk about food! One thing I've learned about men among the years is to not leave them with an empty stomach. I repeat - no empty stomach! No food equals anger and when anger occurs, tears come up. So remember, ladies, don't you dare to leave your husband hungry. Unless you want to suffer the consequences.
If a man is only all that fuss, what lies in a woman's worth? Is she needed only to be the puppet of the season? Food and hot chills in the Summer while driven by a young curly Italian in a Lamborghini? Speaking of Summer..
We are in good ol' June! Half a year has passed and yet another one to come.
When to expect when expecting? It's like traveling without your ID with a small suitcase underneath your bum alluring others with your fake glittery spectacles and hoping for the best to come. Yes..Summer.. where all the emotions urge to thrive and all the flowers blossom towards the sky. Dóh. Bananas - they say!
Windy uptight scarlet dress revealing the unnecessarily bosom and fake tanned Body Shop lotion legs. I might seem quite indiscreet if I may reveal all the glitter and rainbows inside people's minds but let's get back to the point. A woman - unchangeable, stubborn, indecisive with a natural sunlight in her eyes that cares deeply about her loved one/s and always a dame in distress. Center of attention, pop of colour in a man's life until he reaches a certain point when it becomes evasive, even dull reached by the utmost boredom. That's crucial. Ignite your youthful lust by urging to your romance until your most desired 'peplum' comes to the point of  routine. It scares us all, even me, myself - I admit. Then comes our friend, Google and we try our best to 'dress to impress'. Nonetheless we spend all our savings - we go to gym, work out until we faint to exhaust; we paint our faces like unattractive female clowns and we add some material on us that we paid loads of cash just to get the response back - 'oh! you did your nails, that's cool.' Then back to reality.
And it hits you hard when thinking about the fact that all the money you spend is for looking good and impress your man. Admit yourself that you are scared by routine! And yes, we should be but that doesn't mean you must take extreme measurements. That means you must make yourself happy, first. Ask yourself several questions beginning with - is it worth spending so much money on stuff that will make you look more or less ridiculous? I guess not. Start with loving your body and remind yourself how beautiful and confident you are. Nevertheless you will start working-out with pleasure and courage is the next step you add to your change. Don't try to change yourself into another woman. Be that woman he fell in love with in the first place! Remind him how it felt to be loved and to fall in love with each other...AGAIN!


Happiness is always found in the moment that is here, now. Constantly remembering bad things, or sad things, can rob you of your present -- that is, your pre-sent -- joy. Happiness has been sent to you in advance by God. It is here, in this moment, if you will seize it...and share it. - N.D.Walsch

Love,
R.